So sorry it has been a month since I posted!! I knew it had been a while, but a whole month.. wow! I have no excuse.. just haven't gotten around to it. Had a ton of blogs that I composed in my head, but just never made it over to my computer to get it out to you.
This week I had the pleasure of working the school Book Fair. It was the first one I participated in here in California, so I was curious to see how different/similar it was to those in NJ.
So, today I am happy to share my "Five on Friday" observations from the Book Fair:
1) When working a book fair, be sure you have had a full night's rest. Your brain gets fried counting out all those ziplocs full of pennies, nickles and dimes! Seriously, we had a child with a ziploc of just pennies and was able to purchase a $10 book ! Happy Counting!
2) This was a first for me -- we had one child who brought their parent's credit card (YIKES!) Don't worry - we didn't let her use it and NO, the parent didn't know about it!
3) At least once during the week, you'll overhear the following conversation:
Child 1: So, do you have money for the book fair?
Child 2: Yep, I took __ dollars (insert any amount ranging from $1 - $10) from my Mom (or Dad's) wallet while he was ___ (sleeping,working, eating, etc.)
4) Make sure you have PLENTY of hand sanitizer on hand.. all that money, lots of kids = plenty of germs. Better yet, wear gloves!!
5) Book Fairs are mislabeled.. it really should be the Accessory Fair -- lots of kids are there for the "good stuff" . "Hi - I have $10.00 and I'd like 4 erasers, 3 bookmarks, 2 Justin Bieber posters and the $1.99 book."
Seriously, it was fun but I am ready to soak my feet, rest my voice and read MY book.
Live simply...Love generously...Care deeply...Speak kindly... Leave the rest to God!
Friday, November 9, 2012
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
That Stinks!
Today has turned out to be a stinky day... literally! This morning Steve & I were rudely awakened by the stench of a skunk. Nothing like that smell at 5:30 in the morning to jolt you out of a sound sleep. Remind me to close my windows at night!
Then, later in the morning, I got into our car which was parked in the driveway only to discover the faint skunk smell again! UGH.. I rolled down all the windows and sprayed Febreeze all over the car to get rid of it.
It's been a few hours now so I am hoping when I go back out to the car, the smell will be completely gone. Here's hoping that this was a "hit and run" and that this little critter has not taken up residence in our yard permanently!
Then, later in the morning, I got into our car which was parked in the driveway only to discover the faint skunk smell again! UGH.. I rolled down all the windows and sprayed Febreeze all over the car to get rid of it.
It's been a few hours now so I am hoping when I go back out to the car, the smell will be completely gone. Here's hoping that this was a "hit and run" and that this little critter has not taken up residence in our yard permanently!
Saturday, October 6, 2012
To Pee Or Not to Pee...that is the Question!
So our "staycation" took a very unexpected turn last night. It appears we have a "back-up" in the pipes of our house so we will be spending the day with our new BFF, the plumber. Apparently he will be here most of today and has warned us not to use any water. Sounds fun, right?
So, we've been fratanizing some local businesses to use their bathrooms throughout the day and just found out, thanks to modern technology, there's even an "app" for that.
So, for all of those whose indoor plumbing is working today... I am soooooo jealous!
So, we've been fratanizing some local businesses to use their bathrooms throughout the day and just found out, thanks to modern technology, there's even an "app" for that.
So, for all of those whose indoor plumbing is working today... I am soooooo jealous!
Friday, October 5, 2012
Weekend Outlook
So... it's Friday! Where are we going this weekend, you ask? By the look of the gas prices - NO WHERE!!!!! Prices have skyrocketed over the last week. Guess it's time for a good ole' fashioned bike ride.
Thursday, October 4, 2012
Friends
Our conversations at home have focused a lot on the topics of friends and friendships. Given that we are in a new state, thousands of miles from our closest friends and family, you can imagine that we miss them.. a lot. But just knowing you are there, brings a smile to my face. Thank you to all of you who have called me, texted me, and emailed me to see how we are doing. And a special thanks to those of you who have taken the time to call, Skype and wrote letters to Christopher! You have no idea how much that has brightened his day. I only hope to be able to find friends HALF as wonderful as you all are!
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Hair Tale
Having just spent the morning getting my hair cut and highlighted for the first time since moving, I was excited to get a reaction. I guess ANY reaction. So, when I picked Chris up from school and got him settled into the car, I turned to him and said, "So.. do you notice anything different about me?"
C: "Um.. you changed your shirt?"
M: "No, that's not it..(then I started pulling and pointing to my hair)
C: "Oh.. your hair is darker"
M: "WHAT??????? It is NOT darker, I just got it highlighted..it's LIGHTER.
C: "Nope.. looks darker to me.. just like my hair"
M: "That can't be.. maybe you are just not looking at it in the right light..it's definitely blonder. " (I started twisting my head around like a maniac so he could see that it definitely was lighter) "I just spent a lot of time and money on my hair!"
C: "Still looks the same Mom"
That's right everyone... I have A LOT of work to do on this little boy to prep him for marriage.. LOL Just kidding. Today's lesson was that I should NEVER fish for a complement from my 8 year old...
C: "Um.. you changed your shirt?"
M: "No, that's not it..(then I started pulling and pointing to my hair)
C: "Oh.. your hair is darker"
M: "WHAT??????? It is NOT darker, I just got it highlighted..it's LIGHTER.
C: "Nope.. looks darker to me.. just like my hair"
M: "That can't be.. maybe you are just not looking at it in the right light..it's definitely blonder. " (I started twisting my head around like a maniac so he could see that it definitely was lighter) "I just spent a lot of time and money on my hair!"
C: "Still looks the same Mom"
That's right everyone... I have A LOT of work to do on this little boy to prep him for marriage.. LOL Just kidding. Today's lesson was that I should NEVER fish for a complement from my 8 year old...
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
The Task That Never Seems to End!
Today I tackled a task that I have been putting off.. and off.. and off. Sorting, shredding and filing the massive amounts of paper that just seems to appear in my home.
I don't know how 3 people accumulate so much paper! I shredded my little heart out this morning and got halfway through my pile. Just when I thought I'd call it a day, the mailman came by with more paper to sort, shred and file.. sigh....
I don't know how 3 people accumulate so much paper! I shredded my little heart out this morning and got halfway through my pile. Just when I thought I'd call it a day, the mailman came by with more paper to sort, shred and file.. sigh....
Thursday, September 20, 2012
Burn, Baby Burn
So, today did NOT go as planned. You ever have one of those days when you feel like you just want to crawl under the covers and stay there? That was what I really wanted to do earlier today, but after I dropped my son off at school, I was "up" so I decided to tackle the never ending "to do" list.
First up was to make a couple of meals for the remainder of the week. I like to do that sometimes so I am not scrambling at the end of the day when I am exhausted and plus it's always nice to have a meal or two in the freezer ready to pop into the oven.
Sooooo, as I was grilling some chicken on the stove top, some liquid flew out of the pan and onto my wrist.. OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have a nice sized burn on my left wrist. Thankfully, it did not blister. I ran my wrist under cold water, put some antibiotic on it and popped a couple of extra strength Tylenol for the pain. Of course I called my personal triage "nurses" (thanks to my sister, Ruth, and sister-in-law, Shirley!) just to make sure I wasn't forgetting to do something for my wound.
After running to the drugstore to stock up on some burn cream, I came home and went right to my room to take a nap. I'm happy to say that the pain has subsided and I get to sport a lovely bandage to back to school night tonight.
Although the "to do" list is still waiting for me for another day, at least we have a nice meal in the freezer.
First up was to make a couple of meals for the remainder of the week. I like to do that sometimes so I am not scrambling at the end of the day when I am exhausted and plus it's always nice to have a meal or two in the freezer ready to pop into the oven.
Sooooo, as I was grilling some chicken on the stove top, some liquid flew out of the pan and onto my wrist.. OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have a nice sized burn on my left wrist. Thankfully, it did not blister. I ran my wrist under cold water, put some antibiotic on it and popped a couple of extra strength Tylenol for the pain. Of course I called my personal triage "nurses" (thanks to my sister, Ruth, and sister-in-law, Shirley!) just to make sure I wasn't forgetting to do something for my wound.
After running to the drugstore to stock up on some burn cream, I came home and went right to my room to take a nap. I'm happy to say that the pain has subsided and I get to sport a lovely bandage to back to school night tonight.
Although the "to do" list is still waiting for me for another day, at least we have a nice meal in the freezer.
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
It's Official!
I'm a California Licensed Driver! We have our official California plates on our cars and our new license in hand! Because our weight is listed.. I mean for "security purposes" I am not posting the actual photo/license as I'm sure you will understand LOL.
Although I didn't opt for special "vanity" plates.. here is one that could have been a contender...
or for my little guy... he could use this one when he is older...
I also like this...
Although I didn't opt for special "vanity" plates.. here is one that could have been a contender...
or for my little guy... he could use this one when he is older...
I also like this...
Now other California drivers can love or hate me thinking I am one of them.. and not because of my Jersey plates. But you and I know the truth...
Monday, September 17, 2012
Happy Birthday to You!!
Just wanted to wish my Dad, Joseph Somma, a very happy 79th Birthday!!
Dad, I love you very much and am so blessed to have you as my father. You are the most loving, thoughtful, generous and kind man I know and I thank God for you every day. I love you and, even though we are miles apart, you are always close in my heart. I can't wait to see you at Christmas!
Also, a very Happy Birthday to my Uncle Dave as well! I am blessed to have such a loving uncle, who happens to look just like my Dad (hehe)
Happy birthday to the Somma boy Twins!
Here are some of my favorite photos of me and my Dad --
Dad, I love you very much and am so blessed to have you as my father. You are the most loving, thoughtful, generous and kind man I know and I thank God for you every day. I love you and, even though we are miles apart, you are always close in my heart. I can't wait to see you at Christmas!
Also, a very Happy Birthday to my Uncle Dave as well! I am blessed to have such a loving uncle, who happens to look just like my Dad (hehe)
Happy birthday to the Somma boy Twins!
Here are some of my favorite photos of me and my Dad --
Weekend Recap
We just spent a fun-filled weekend at Legoland. Two glorious days of roller coasters, water park activities, a journey through the Sea Life Aquarium and of course plenty of Lego building. The weather was HOT, but the crowds were small, making for short lines and lots of water consumption.
While eating lunch at the Park yesterday, I realized that my "temporary crown" came out! I was showing Christopher what it looked like and he just thought it was a regular tooth so he exclaimed, "That's GREAT Mom!! Now you can put that under your pillow tonight and you'll have money in the morning!!"
How cute! Didn't want to burst his bubble and tell him that at some point in life it's NOT a good thing to have teeth, crowns, fillings, etc. to come out of your mouth and that it will COST money...not BRING you money! Going to the dentist tomorrow to get refitted. Fun times!
While eating lunch at the Park yesterday, I realized that my "temporary crown" came out! I was showing Christopher what it looked like and he just thought it was a regular tooth so he exclaimed, "That's GREAT Mom!! Now you can put that under your pillow tonight and you'll have money in the morning!!"
How cute! Didn't want to burst his bubble and tell him that at some point in life it's NOT a good thing to have teeth, crowns, fillings, etc. to come out of your mouth and that it will COST money...not BRING you money! Going to the dentist tomorrow to get refitted. Fun times!
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Homework
One of the benefits of living in California is obviously the weather!! This afternoon, Chris asked me if he could do his homework outside. How fun is that! Here he is reading (they are required to read for 20 minutes every day as part of their assigned homework).
Happy he is enthusiastic about doing homework AND spending time outside.
Happy he is enthusiastic about doing homework AND spending time outside.
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Emergency Kit
I find it both ironic and a "sign of our times" that today I sent my son to school with an "Emergency Kit" in his back pack. All the kids at his elementary school are required to bring one in and it is stored in his classroom for the entire school year where he hopefully will never have a reason to open it.
On the first day of school, the emergency list came home with his papers. We were asked to send in a towel, sweatshirt, some snacks, hand wipes, sanitizers, juice boxes, etc. The things you would typically expect to be on such a list. The last two items on this list caused me to choke up: a photo of your family and a note from you explaining that there has been an emergency and that you will get to the school as soon as you can to get him although you don't know how soon that will be. As I was writing that note, I couldn't help but get emotional praying that such a day would never come. But, as Sept 11 reminds us, you just never know....
Friday, September 7, 2012
Five on Friday
I haven't done one of these in a long time, but here is my Five on Friday. Five ways California schools differ from those in New Jersey.
In California:
1) School playground is on sand, not grass
2) Classroom has air conditioning
3) Kids have recess more than once a day! (short breaks)
4) The school must provide the school supplies for the kids (wow!! Like this one!)
5) School gets out an hour early every Wednesday!
Not sure how I feel about all of these differences...only time will tell.
Thursday, September 6, 2012
First Day!!
Here's a photo of my 3rd grader. He was excited and nervous as he walked into his new school today. My heart felt for him and I couldn't really relate because I never moved across country as a child. He is a trooper and I know he is experiencing so many changes all at once! So, say a prayer for Christopher today as he starts this journey. He's a friendly kid, so hopefully he'll receive some kindness/friendliness in return. As Mom always said to me, "In order to have friends, you need to be friendly".
So, on yesterday's blog I asked all of you what you did on your kid's first day back at school. I had a whole agenda of things planned out, but sometimes things don't go as planned. I received a call late last night from
saying that my patio table is being delivered between 9:30 and 11:30 today!
After that, I am heading right over to this place...
After that, I may just come home, have a cup of coffee and do absolutely NOTHING. Doesn't that sound wonderful!! I may have to close my eyes though so I am not tempted to see all the work that needs to be done around here.
Enjoy your day everyone!
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
What's Your Plan?
Tomorrow at this time, the house will be very quiet... Chris heads off to his NEW school, in our NEW town, located in our NEW home state. Lots of "newness" in the air. I think he is appropriately excited and nervous, but I know he will do great.
So, as I ponder what I will do with my free time tomorrow, I thought I'd throw the question out to all you Moms. What did you do or will you do on your kids first day back to school? Do you have to work? Will you clean your house from top to bottom? Opt to tackle the laundry pile? Lay in bed in utter exhaustion from your summer? Pamper yourself? Shop? Get together with friends?
You'll have to wait until tomorrow to see what I have on my agenda - and it's NOT unpacking boxes.
Tuesday, September 4, 2012
PSA for Santa
Dear Santa:
I know it's only September, but I thought I'd write to you since I'm already seeing Christmas decorations in stores. You know I've been a good girl this year so far (and what a year it has been!). I figured I'd grab you before you get busy with requests from kids. You see, I have a special favor to ask of you... and it would actually benefit you and me!
I honestly don't have much of wish list this year (shocking, I know!). In fact, my ONE request is that WHATEVER you bring me this year... please, please, please... for the love of God PLEASE... DO NOT put it in a box that needs to be unwrapped.. or opened... or stored somewhere. If you have seen the ridiculous number of boxes I have had to open this last week, I know you understand and feel my pain. Just throw my gift in a bag with tissue paper. Better yet, just leave the gift (no box or bag or any decor) on my front step (sorry no fireplaces in Sunny California). If the gift needs to be assembled, I'll pay the $10 for you to do it for me. Just please, NO unwrapping or opening of boxes for this gal.
That is all. Carry on and thanks!
Beth
I know it's only September, but I thought I'd write to you since I'm already seeing Christmas decorations in stores. You know I've been a good girl this year so far (and what a year it has been!). I figured I'd grab you before you get busy with requests from kids. You see, I have a special favor to ask of you... and it would actually benefit you and me!
I honestly don't have much of wish list this year (shocking, I know!). In fact, my ONE request is that WHATEVER you bring me this year... please, please, please... for the love of God PLEASE... DO NOT put it in a box that needs to be unwrapped.. or opened... or stored somewhere. If you have seen the ridiculous number of boxes I have had to open this last week, I know you understand and feel my pain. Just throw my gift in a bag with tissue paper. Better yet, just leave the gift (no box or bag or any decor) on my front step (sorry no fireplaces in Sunny California). If the gift needs to be assembled, I'll pay the $10 for you to do it for me. Just please, NO unwrapping or opening of boxes for this gal.
That is all. Carry on and thanks!
Beth
Monday, September 3, 2012
Dinner Talk
A few weeks ago while attending a business dinner with Steve's new boss, I had one of those moments as a mom, when I just wanted to hide under the table! My lovable little 8 year old had been on his "best" behavior for this important dinner. He had the pre-dinner lecture and knew what was expected of him. I knew he would be good... I just didn't know for how long.
Everything was smooth sailing for the first two hours. Then, I noticed Chris was growing a little more restless and my "keep him busy" activities weren't working as well. So, I engaged him in conversation to keep his mind off wanting to leave because, in his book, this dinner meeting should have been over a long time ago.
Chris starting sharing about how much fun he had at the beach and how he especially loved digging in the sand.
"Mom, next time we go back to the beach, I am going to dig a hole to the other side of the earth!"
"Wow", I said. "That would take a long time to do. What would you do when you got there? "
Chris turned to me with his mischievous smile and said, " That's easy! I would pop my head out and say...Well Helloooooooo Ladies!"
Thankfully Steve and his boss were deep in conversation and didn't pick up on the lively conversation Chris and I were having. I was sure happy that the dinner wrapped up shortly after that. One thing's for sure... I'm going to have my hands full with this little ladies man when he's older LOL.
Everything was smooth sailing for the first two hours. Then, I noticed Chris was growing a little more restless and my "keep him busy" activities weren't working as well. So, I engaged him in conversation to keep his mind off wanting to leave because, in his book, this dinner meeting should have been over a long time ago.
Chris starting sharing about how much fun he had at the beach and how he especially loved digging in the sand.
"Mom, next time we go back to the beach, I am going to dig a hole to the other side of the earth!"
"Wow", I said. "That would take a long time to do. What would you do when you got there? "
Chris turned to me with his mischievous smile and said, " That's easy! I would pop my head out and say...Well Helloooooooo Ladies!"
Thankfully Steve and his boss were deep in conversation and didn't pick up on the lively conversation Chris and I were having. I was sure happy that the dinner wrapped up shortly after that. One thing's for sure... I'm going to have my hands full with this little ladies man when he's older LOL.
Saturday, September 1, 2012
Wish List
September is the month that we start talking about Christmas in my house. I typically buy Christopher's Advent Calendar in September (Lego, of course) because that's when they come out and I can usually get a discount using points I have earned throughout the year.
True to form, Chris already has already started on his wish list. I've "pinned" a number of K'Nex, Lego and video games that he has pointed out. This morning he lovingly came over to me with my iPhone and told me that it would "make sense" for him to ask for an iPhone for Christmas. That way he wouldn't be interrupted when I receive phone calls (since he typically plays with my phone while I am driving, etc.) LOL unbelievable!!
I told him the price of the phone.. he paused.. then said he'd still like it! Hope Santa has some deep pockets!
True to form, Chris already has already started on his wish list. I've "pinned" a number of K'Nex, Lego and video games that he has pointed out. This morning he lovingly came over to me with my iPhone and told me that it would "make sense" for him to ask for an iPhone for Christmas. That way he wouldn't be interrupted when I receive phone calls (since he typically plays with my phone while I am driving, etc.) LOL unbelievable!!
I told him the price of the phone.. he paused.. then said he'd still like it! Hope Santa has some deep pockets!
Friday, August 31, 2012
Say Yes to the House
Our house hunting journey over the last month can only be summarized as a cross between two of my favorite TV Shows..."Say Yes to the Dress" and "House Hunters"
In "Say Yes to the Dress" brides go to Kleinfeld's in NYC to hunt for their perfect bridal gowns. Most brides have to try on countless dresses... the good, the bad, and the ugly, before coming upon "THE" dress. They have their "aha" moment, tears flow and the fairytale journey ends.
On House Hunters, the couple look at several homes all of which have "pros" and "cons". At the end of the 1/2 hour show the couple have to determine which home they will purchase.
Over the last 3 weeks, I have come to the conclusion that searching for a home to rent in the greater Los Angeles area is much like searching for the perfect wedding dress. You have to see a lot of properties to have your "aha" moment. Some homes are plain, some are ornate, some are on the low side of the budget and it is NEVER a good idea to see a home that is out of your price point. As what happens on the TV show, the bride will ultimately fall in love with the unattainable dress and walk away discouraged and heartbroken.
House hunting for a RENTAL, not even for a purchase, has been all of the above things... we must have seen over 30 homes and competition is fierce! Who would have known that in L.A. there are bidding wars on rentals?? Most people can't afford the outrageous home prices out here for a home, so costs of rentals are at a premium. The first home we saw was a nightmare.. NOT what we expected and not a place I would ever consider living in. When we walked out my son turned to me and said, "That place was bad to the bones!" And it was. Lesson learned... ALWAYS do a drive by of a property before scheduling an appointment to see it. Pictures can be deceiving and you never know if the surrounding area is good or not. It may be a McMansion with a shack next door to it. Another townhome we saw was perfect! It was modern with tons of space and storage and could easily accommodate all of our things. It was priced right, but was in the wrong part of town..even though it was gated, there was no way we were going to live in that neighborhood.
In the end, much like on the show House Hunters, we had to choose between two homes... the dream 3 story beach townhouse that had ocean views, a modern floor plan, a HUGE kitchen, but an awkward layout and not enough space for all of our furniture which meant we'd have to pay for storage. Option 1 was what I think everyone would expect to see when coming to visit us in CA. Totally unlike anything we've ever lived in.
Option 2 was a single family, older ranch home with a huge living room, new carpets, small kitchen and small bedrooms. It fit our needs as far as space, but could use some updating. The home itself was in great condition, in the school district we wanted.
In the end we said "yes" to Option 2 and are so glad we did. Although an older home, I am sure we are going to have no problem putting our stamp on it while we rent it. It's in a great neighborhood located 2 miles from the beach and 2 miles from great shopping and 5 short blocks from Chris' new school.
So thankful to God for helping us through this often tiresome experience and leading us to the home we know he had meant for us.
In "Say Yes to the Dress" brides go to Kleinfeld's in NYC to hunt for their perfect bridal gowns. Most brides have to try on countless dresses... the good, the bad, and the ugly, before coming upon "THE" dress. They have their "aha" moment, tears flow and the fairytale journey ends.
On House Hunters, the couple look at several homes all of which have "pros" and "cons". At the end of the 1/2 hour show the couple have to determine which home they will purchase.
Over the last 3 weeks, I have come to the conclusion that searching for a home to rent in the greater Los Angeles area is much like searching for the perfect wedding dress. You have to see a lot of properties to have your "aha" moment. Some homes are plain, some are ornate, some are on the low side of the budget and it is NEVER a good idea to see a home that is out of your price point. As what happens on the TV show, the bride will ultimately fall in love with the unattainable dress and walk away discouraged and heartbroken.
House hunting for a RENTAL, not even for a purchase, has been all of the above things... we must have seen over 30 homes and competition is fierce! Who would have known that in L.A. there are bidding wars on rentals?? Most people can't afford the outrageous home prices out here for a home, so costs of rentals are at a premium. The first home we saw was a nightmare.. NOT what we expected and not a place I would ever consider living in. When we walked out my son turned to me and said, "That place was bad to the bones!" And it was. Lesson learned... ALWAYS do a drive by of a property before scheduling an appointment to see it. Pictures can be deceiving and you never know if the surrounding area is good or not. It may be a McMansion with a shack next door to it. Another townhome we saw was perfect! It was modern with tons of space and storage and could easily accommodate all of our things. It was priced right, but was in the wrong part of town..even though it was gated, there was no way we were going to live in that neighborhood.
In the end, much like on the show House Hunters, we had to choose between two homes... the dream 3 story beach townhouse that had ocean views, a modern floor plan, a HUGE kitchen, but an awkward layout and not enough space for all of our furniture which meant we'd have to pay for storage. Option 1 was what I think everyone would expect to see when coming to visit us in CA. Totally unlike anything we've ever lived in.
Option 2 was a single family, older ranch home with a huge living room, new carpets, small kitchen and small bedrooms. It fit our needs as far as space, but could use some updating. The home itself was in great condition, in the school district we wanted.
In the end we said "yes" to Option 2 and are so glad we did. Although an older home, I am sure we are going to have no problem putting our stamp on it while we rent it. It's in a great neighborhood located 2 miles from the beach and 2 miles from great shopping and 5 short blocks from Chris' new school.
So thankful to God for helping us through this often tiresome experience and leading us to the home we know he had meant for us.
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